What are some of your IDEALS in life? Are they possible? What are you doing to get things that way? Is God involved in this ideal? If you are not close to accomplishing your ideals, what is holding you back?
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.